“My mother was the most beautiful woman I ever saw. All I am I owe to my mother. I attribute all my success in life to the moral, intellectual and physical education I received from her.” –George Washington
Do you wince when someone says, “My mother is my best friend. We talk everyday and do everything together?” Wish things were different between the two of you?
If so, this post is for you.
This Mother’s Day make peace with your mother.
For the last several weeks I had asked my intuition for a dream with an answer to a decision I had been grappling with regarding the care taking of my mother. If the situation continues to be intolerable do I stay or do I go?
I had a dream that my mother passed. I was filled with regret that I hadn’t made peace with her before it was too late.
In this the dream I received a flash of intuition with the intuitive insight that she had spent her entire life reacting out of her own pain, and that it had been anything but her intention to be so hurtful.
We had been locked in a dance of egos….if only one of us had the courage to rise above the ego things might have ended differently.
When I awoke from my intuitive dream I understood that we are here to love one another at the soul level despite human flaws.
Neither of us is perfect. It is time to end the perpetual sparring match. Time to change my thinking.
While I didn’t get the answer I expected or needed my intuition had given me a clear message:
Make peace with your mother. Do it now before it’s too late.
Love is all that matters. Wounds, hurts and bruises dim the light of love for as long as you allow them to. Make the effort to wipe them away as often as necessary by forgiving and you will see that the light never stopped shining.
Happy Mother’s Day to all mothers, daughters and sons included. Here’s to hoping you can make peace.
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Hi Angela,
I read this earlier and then forgot to comment. You last words Make peace with your mother. Do it now before it’s too late. yes so important. I know some Journey work I did with Brandon Bays released any last anger i had with Mum.
So I was delighted to read your words-
all my love
Suzie
Dear Suzie,
Thank you so much for the advice. I know you are right!
xoxo,
Angela
Important reminder, Angela. I’ve made peace with my mother. She was an outspoken woman and full of vigor. We didn’t always see eye to eye, but I know she loved me and wanted only the best. It is wonderful to just sit with her these days. Have a wonderful day.
Hi Cathy,
I’m so glad to hear that. It must be wonderful to just sit and enjoy her now.
Happy Mother’s Day to you.
I made at least superficial peace with my mother before she died. However, since her death, I had a powerful dream about her that brought peace to a deeper level. So one way or another, peace is possible!
Galen,
That’s wonderful to hear. I keep working on it each and every day.
Thanks for giving me hope and I’m glad you found peace.
Angela – Thank you for sharing your personal intuitive experience in making peace with your. Your intuition is serving you well my friend- with much love- Fran
Hi Fran,
You’re welcome. I do hope so!
Thank you and Happy Mother’s Day to you!
Sending you a big virtual hug!
Great advice, Angela. I believe I made peace with my dad before he died. He did not know how to love, how to be a father. He was angry. He did the best he could. I forgave him. It set me free.
Hi Rosemarie,
Yes, that is the point- forgiving sets us free. It’s for us. The other person is already forgiven by spirit. We are always forgiven by spirit…it’s just our emotions and thoughts that hold the “pain” in place and make into a “ball and chain” we drag with us through every moment of our life.
Sometimes it takes a while for the “ego” to stop feeling “justified” for holding all the anger and resentment toward the person who caused the hurt though. I guess it’s all part of a process. You’re angry for a while and then you start to see the senselessness of holding onto to the anger.
I could go around saying “so and so” deserves my anger or cold shoulder etc., but it’s just an illusion. My soul and their soul is just as pure and perfect, it’s the “personality” that believes “punishing” the other person is justified.
I’m so glad you were able to free yourself from that Roe.