If you’re anything like me, you may have been raised to believe that self-love had nothing to do with success.

Paying too much attention to yourself was just plain shameful and smacked of conceit.

And, only weak individuals who needed to rely on others to take care of them “pampered” themselves.

You were taught that only hard work mattered and to put your feelings aside in order to become successful in a dog-eat-dog world.

Looking back on it now I can see why self-love eluded me and why it took so long to clear the negative and critical voices from my psyche.

I had the honor of reading an advance copy Evelyn Lim’s new book, “Self-Love Secrets” recently and it was an eye-opener. I thought by this point in my life I’d gotten my s**t together and had learned to completely love and accept myself. What I learned was that I still had much to learn and a ways to go! Life is a journey they say…

Lack of self-love affects us in so many ways – from the boots up. If we’re lacking in self-love we will struggle in many areas of our lives, possibly never becoming aware that the obstacles and repeated struggles stem from a lack of self-love. We may experience issues with finances and our security, relationships and feeling worthy of love, health and an inability to recognize how our habits undermine our health and more.

I spoke to Evelyn about her new book and recorded our conversation for you here. Listen to this 13 minute interview. I guarantee you’ll be amazed how much you DON’T know about self-love.


After listening to the interview please share your reactions about self-love. Were you surprised at how the lack of self-love can manifest in your life? Do feel you may need more self-love?

Feel free to leave questions for Evelyn in the comments.

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Evelyn Lim is the author to the book “Abundance Alchemy: Journey of Gold”. She is also co-author to “Adventures in Manifesting: Success and Spirituality” together with other well-known authors such as Dr Joe Vitale and Dr Fred Alan Wolf (teachers from The Secret), and Dr Brian Tracy. Professionally, she is a life coach, intuitive consultant and vision board counselor from Singapore.

Evelyn enjoys sharing with others the message: “Change begins with you. Be a luminary of love and light.” Her personal creed stems from the importance of aligning with the true self in order to consciously manifest for abundance. It arose from her personal journey into greater self-love.

Evelyn intends to live her best possible life, and by doing so, inspire others to do the same. Highly passionate, she is dedicated to doing work as a creative expression of who she is. She now assists her clients and readers with shifting to higher vibrational energy states. For free articles and tips, please visit her website over at http://www.AbundanceTapestry.com

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