You become what you perpetually think about – whether you like it or not.
And, everything that shows up in our lives is a mirror for what we think and believe on the inside.
In other words the reality we experience on the outside actually begins as, “an inside job.”
You cannot have a joyous life unless you’re already feeling joyful.
You cannot have abundance unless you’re already feeling abundant.
And, you will not experience success unless you already feel successful.
We are all experiencing life according to the thoughts we hold, and the beliefs we’ve programmed within us.
Did you ever see the film, A Portrait of Dorian Gray?
The movie was based on an Oscar Wilde novel. Dorian was a handsome man who sold his soul to the devil in order to keep his youth and beauty. Part of his pact was that only his portrait would age. He lived a selfish life, and used and hurt many people. He hung the portrait in his attic and looked at it from time to time. You probably guessed the rest. His picture aged and became very hideous looking as a reflection of the person he’d become.
The Universe responds in much the same way to our every thought and belief. The process of co-creating with the Universe is an impersonal one. It doesn’t matter if you believe you’re ugly and unlovable, or beautiful and worthy of love – the Universe will line up the people and events in your life that match and uphold those beliefs. If you’re not sure this is true for you look at the circumstances in your life now. Are they not a complete match to your beliefs. If you’re truly honest with yourself, you’ll see that they are.
I knew a man who would brood for hours over the injustices done to him. He was constantly embroiled in a battle over something, and always on the defense. Can you guess why? He thought everyone was out to get him! He refused to accept the notion that his beliefs were creating the exact conditions that he experienced. In actuality what he was doing was not accepting responsibility for his beliefs. It was easier for him to uphold the delusion that the world was horrible place, than to become aware that it was a reflection of the kind of person he was inside.
Many people live their lives believing that they’re powerless victims of fate. It gives them an excuse when things go wrong. But in truth they’re really very powerful – if they only knew. They’ve used their power, however, to create an unhappy life. If they would accept that they are creating their life’s circumstance they could use that very same power to create a life they loved.
If you feel there are things showing up in your life that you no longer want here’s a sure-fire way to send them packing:
1. Become the thing you want most in your life! Be it and really feel it! Do you want love? Be loving. Do you want joy? Be joyous. Do you want abundance? Embrace abundance and give and share with others. When you embody the quality of the thing you want most in your life – the Universe will line up people and events in order to mirror it back to you.
Be the change you want to see – and you will become what you think about, and so will your life.
Once we accept that we’re the ones creating the the circumstances of our lives we no longer have to live like victims. Knowing the Truth – does set you free!
What do you want to become? What will you think about to create that in your life?
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I knew a man who would brood for hours over the injustices done to him.
That line from the story above describes my father to a “T”
I can’t say that I love my dad I told him that I only respect him only thats because he has sleep apnea to the worst degree and my younger years were ruined by his sleep apnea and by his family life growing up, I had to suffer for his younger years, how was that my fault I ask?.
Hi Paul,
I’m so sorry to hear that you had such a rough childhood. It sounds like your father had a lot of insecurities and power issues and took them out on his kids- which of course is not your fault. I’m so sorry. His childhood must have scarred him and then the cycle repeated itself in your family life.
That’s the whole point of becoming “conscious.” You can’t do anything to make your father become conscious of how he repeated the behavior he saw in his parents – only you can take responsibility for your actions.
Now that you’re asking questions and becoming aware of how each of us affects our own reality with our thoughts and behaviors you can end the cycle. It’s a process, and maybe a slow one, but waking up to our true power to create ourselves and our lives by how we think and act is the first step in living life consciously. When you live consciously you truly own your life.
I thank you so much for coming by and adding to the conversation here by commenting. I wish you the happiest of new years too.
I have a person very close to me who constantly says that work is hard, and is meant to not be enjoyed. So guess what? She’s always tearing her hair out about her job and complaining about how she doesn’t make any money. Duh. I find that it takes constant vigilance to remind myself what state I want to foster mentally. For instance, at the moment, I’m attempting to not obsess about what I’ve just eaten or am about to eat. And it takes me constantly and gently reminding myself to stop. The mind is all powerful!
Hi Charlotte,
Yes, it’s so true – the mind is all powerful, for sure! If we think everything has to be hard – it will be!
I know I do the same thing. I monitor my thoughts and am constantly “taking my temperature” with respect to my thoughts. I want to remain cool and calm that everything in my life is smooth and easy!
Thanks so much for visiting and commenting Charlotte!
Angela: I am such a fan of this post and this type of thinking. I really liked what you said here and the direction you gave to claim your life and your ability to shape and influence everything we experience. It is such great advice and so true. I think the key is to continually read great post and information like this so that we convince ourselves of this reality and then we have to choose to do all we can to take advantage of our ability to co-create our life. As always, thanks for the inspiration and motivation.
Hi Sibyl, Happy Sunday to you! To have you as a fan – is an honor! Thank you.
I’m glad the post rings true for you. At our core we all do recognize Truth – of course I knew you would since you are writing wonderful posts in a similar vein.
I agree – even if I “know” something I still like to hear it over and over – it helps me to stay on the right track in my life.
Thank you so much for your kind and lovely words! It’s always a pleasure having you visit here!
The most powerful thing in the universe is not nuclear energy, mother nature or being a billionaire. It’s your mind and your imagination that goes with it. Nuclear energy was invented by a mind as were all the things good or bad that we know about or use today.
Our minds create what we think about and our subconscious minds either hold us in a trap or release us to be whatever we want to be.
One of the best books I have ever read about thoughts and our minds is As a Man Thinketh. This is truly a mind opening book packed with wisdom and it backs up what you say You Become What You Think About.
Great post
Hi Andre,
It’s so nice to see you here! I agree with you 10000%. The most powerful thing in the Universe is the Mind!
James Allen – yes, a classic little booklet from The New Thought era! Terrific book I’m glad you mentioned it here. The copyright has expired and it can be downloaded for free from the Internet.
I’m happy you enjoyed the post! I thank you so much for reading it and for leaving your terrific comment too!
Hi Angela,
I did not see the movie, but I do agree with your post 100%! i believe that what I focis on grows..so I choose to focus on and grow the good in my life..to keep my vibration level high..to allow gratitude, joy, peace, love, faith, creativity to rule my days…And all of *that* explains why I lead quite a magical life indeed 🙂
Hi Joy,
I hope you’re having a marvelous weekend! You’ve put it so well when you point out that you choose to focus on and grow the good in your life! That’s the secret!!! And, of course you know this as you’re manifesting a “magical life!” Awesome – keep spreading your wonderful vibrations and light around the blogosphere Joy. You’re a treasure!
Very good point Angela! It’s really incredible to me how so many people virtually waste their time and energy focusing on so many negative and destructive thoughts. Never know that the more they think about them, the more negativity to seem to have in their lives.
We definitely do become what we think about and the more we think about it, the quicker and closer we seem to become it.
Best Regards and Take Care,
Gil
Hi Gil, Welcome to Powered by Intuition! Having grown up in a household where a lot of energy was wasted on negative thoughts and useless worry – I can definitely attest to its destructive powers.
You’re so right – I love that you said, “We definitely become what we think about and the more we think about it, the quicker and closer we seem to become it!”
Thank you so much for coming by and adding to the conversation here Gil!
Such cool words, cheers from New Zealand, Marie
Hi Marie, it’s nice to meet you! Thanks for your lovely comment. Please stop by anytime!
the truth in the post is actually a really tough message! and such a valuable one – we really have no-one to blame for the life that we get except ourselves – no exceptions. but it’s also such a powerful message and if we can get it, a truly virtuous one. i try and put out positive energy to everyone that I meet these days, and if occasionally it isn’t reciprocated or worse, it doesn’t matter because my batteries are so much better charged from the majority. thanks angela for the important reminder!
Hi Mark,
It’s so nice “seeing” you. Putting out positive energy to everyone you meet – that’s awesome!
Right, if it doesn’t get reciprocated at least you’re riding a very “high” wave of goodness and light – nothing wrong with that!
I’m so glad you enjoyed the post! Thanks for stopping by and commenting.
Hi Angela!
Great opening — “You become what you perpetually think about – whether you like it or not.” We are in total sync. I believe that the universe reflects what we think and what believe in.
We are not victims of our lives. We have the power to change our perception about our lives. Our lives than change accordingly.
Thanks for such inspiring words. Loving blessings!
Hi Andrea,
Thank you. I’m glad you liked the first line. I’m so glad we’re in total sync.
So true! Yes, if we change how we perceive things – things change around us!
I’m so glad you found the post inspiring.
Blessings to you too!
Angela, this is perfectly articulated. You have a real talent for explaining topics that are easily seen as ‘woo-woo’ or ‘pie in the sky’ – explaining them in a grounded, clear, intelligent way.
Even skeptics can understand the logic in this because of how you articulate it. It’s a phenomenal talent you have.
It’s taken me a while to really get the law of attraction. I remember a quote from Marianne Williamson that lived on my wall for a long, long time “the worlds softens when we soften” It became my mantra for a while. When a friend introduced me to Ester, jerry Abraham Hicks it became even clearer. I see how my thoughts have created my life experience and I see it in others. It’s truly phenomenal when we have the opportunity to observe it.
I love what Tess added in the comments about adding 10 things that went right today along side our gratitude list. Since our thoughts create our experiences, I’d like to put more thoughts to what goes right 🙂
Aileen, you’re so sweet to say that. It’s so funny – the posts I’m rushing to put out, that I think are horrid – everyone seems to like? Why is that? But, thank you!
I’m so glad you feel I present the information in a down-to-earth manner. That’s “me” – totally down to earth. I don’t like pretense, nor do I like being thought of as woo-woo type. Thank you – again!
I love Marianne Williamson. When I read her first big hit when it came out, A Return to Love – I immediately became a huge fan of hers. Yeah, I had trouble with the Law of Attraction when I first heard of it, although then we didn’t refer to it as LOA. If you ever have the chance to read Florence Scovel Shinn – read The Game of Life and How to Play It. When I first heard of this book I was just out of high school and the book was out of print. My cousin had a “photo-stated” copy of it that was being passed around. The book really blew me away. Of now it’s back in print.
Yes, we can never have too much gratitude – I feel the same way about garlic too! lol!
Couldn’t agree more! Though it is so hard to feel wealthy or feel successful when you are jobless. Iguess you have to focus on what is good in your life. Your thoughts?
Hi Roe,
Yeah, it is hard to feel wealthy or successful when you’re jobless. I would advise to focus on whatever you do have instead.
Do you still have a roof over you’re head? Do you still make the rent? Are you still able to buy food? Feel grateful and thankful for that abundance. If we focus on it as abundance – the Universe will line up circumstances to mirror back more abundance. If focus on how successful we are at living on less and getting by – we are a success. We have to change the way we frame each situation to see the kernel of positivity in it!
Angela,
Jacob Glass suggests that besides gratitude we list in our journals 10 thing that went right today, 10 things the people around us got right today, our intention, and how we want to be. He says our ego is going to drive us crazy over negativity so let’s get back with focusing on the positive. It’s amazing how much goes right if we take the time to look at it. Have a nice weekend!
I love that Tess. Gratitude – it makes such a difference. Next week at my mediumship circle our circle leader asked us to bring a list of 20 things we’re grateful for. If we focus on the good stuff – we start pulling in more good stuff. Yay!
All I can say…Isn’t this the truth!! I know that this is why I’m happy!
Hi Betsy,
Yes, it is the truth for sure!
I remember when I first heard of this concept of the Universe and all of us being “mirrors” for one another – back in the 80s.
I couldn’t wrap my mind around it. It really took another 10 years for me to mature enough to accept and finally “see” that I was creating the difficulties I encountered in my life. It was really freeing!
Thanks so much for visiting me Betsy!
Angela, great words of wisdom here! This is something I’ve been aware of for several years and really try to keep at the forefront of my mind. As Farnoosh pointed out, that’s often easier said than done. I love how you referred to this principle as “the process of co-creating with the Universe.” I’ve definitely found that when I believe something with my whole heart, the stars seem to align and the sun shines brightly wherever I go. Likewise, when I start doubting myself or my resolve, I can feel myself getting bounced around by turbulent winds and sinking in murky waters.
One of the things I’ve really noticed lately is that I’ve become so busy with work, grad school, and other commitments that I don’t spend nearly the amount of time I used to with friends. I’ve kind of fallen into the mindset that there just isn’t anyone around that I can really relate to these days. You know, the mindset that it must be them and not me. But those are just my own distorted beliefs. I have to remind myself, you have to be a friend to make a friend. That definitely starts with your thoughts.
As I’ve learned through my Psychology coursework, the first step is to identify the cognitive distortions, then proactively create new ones for ourselves. Once we gain control of our thoughts, we can shape our behaviors, habits, and ultimately our lives. Powerful stuff, our thoughts. 🙂
Hi Adrienne,
It’s so funny I was thinking the same thing this morning. I’m so busy all the time I’ve been neglecting my friends. You do have to be a friend – to have friends, you’re right. Thank you for reminding me.
I agree – let’s all get rid of our “cognitive distortions!”
Thank you so much for coming by and commenting Adrienne.
This is so perfectly true–I totally get everything you say. My biggest experience with this concerns relationships and marriages–as a relationship/divorce support forum moderator for many years and other experiences, including my own, we attract people into our lives that reflect who we are. “Water seeks its own level” is one thought I always have in mind, or “like attracts like” and so on.
Sometimes, if I’m unable to get out of a dark or sad or angry state of mind, I don’t even want to go out of the house until I get over it! Or else I do everything I can to stay centered on the natural joy that’s always in me, underneath it all even if I’m not feeling it, and just work on rising above whatever is troubling me. I know if I’m grumpy that’s about all I’m going to attract that day!
Great post, always good stuff to keep in mind!
Hi Leah,
Yes, I love how you put it, “Water seeks it’s own level.” Terrific analogy. And, of course, “like attracts like.”
I know this morning I didn’t feel like myself….and I meditated and focused on gratitude and joy and I do feel so much better. We can change our emotional states and reactions – it just takes a willingness to recognize it can be done and vigilance to carry out.
Thanks so much for stopping in and leaving a comment Leah!
Very well articulated, Angela. We all have people in our lives that insist on thinking like a victim… well guess what? They become a victim of the world. I like to say that “we are marvelously made and destined to win at WHATEVER we set our minds to.” If we set our minds to LOSING than we will WIN at that. If we set our minds to WINNING and having a fabulous experience on planet earth we will win at that.
Why thank you Rob! Yes, we have all have those victim mentality types in our lives – and yes, they do become victims of their own making. I love that – “we are marvelously made” beautiful! If we “set our minds to win at whatever we set our mind to” – we will! I agree with you 100%! I guess we’re just two peas in a pod on this one Rob! Thanks so much for adding so much positive energy to our conversation here!
Just what I needed to read today – I think it’s harder to say this than to practice it, at least for me but having the knowledge and awareness to know how powerful my thoughts are is more than a good enough start….thank you for sharing this, Angela!
Hi Farnoosh,
I’m soo glad you found the post helpful! Yes – it is harder to say this than to practice it. I think it just has to become a habit. One as easy as remembering to smile more. Once we make anything a habit – it runs on autopilot and we don’t have to exert such an effort anymore. It’s good to see you – thanks so much for coming by and commenting.
Love this post and this inspiring idea, Angela. I so believe it. When you look around you can see this plain as day in the language, actions, and lives those who are joyous and full, and those who are anxious, harried and lacking. It’s not easy, but daily gratitude is a start. Love your energy and excitement that’s shining through in this post, Angela. Happy day.
Hi Katie,
Thank you. I’m so glad you felt the energy and positivity I hoped to emit through the post – but then you’re such a positive and uplifting soul yourself, why wouldn’t you? Gratitude – we could write books on that! Soooo important – yes, thank you for bringing that up.
I love that you pointed out the how the “anxious, harried and lacking” mentality is so easy to pick out by looking at someone’s life. Stands out like a “sore-thumb.” Thanks so much for coming by and adding to the conversation here Katie!
Oh and I would like to add- loved “The Secret” – it really all makes sense to me after reading that book………
Hi Carolee,
The Secret – really opened a lot of minds. I found it a bit too heavy on the manifesting of material objects, but it did more good than harm overall.
My last blog post is somewhat similar- “Your personal Mantra”
It really is true- Believe and receive….I wanted a camper to go camping and started really believing it, despite my hubby losing his job and other obstacles.
Within a few months, I had 2 campers that the owners were practically giving away. We bought one and started camping a few weeks ago. I just KNEW it would happen, so it did.
Hi Carolee,
I will have to read your post. It sounds wonderful and right up my alley! Two campers, really? That is incredible.
Yes, if we have belief, and an expectation, and a strong desire that we will get what we want – it usually happens. That’s why it’s so sad when you see people living miserably – if they only realized that they were attracting those life conditions and could change what they attracted, they could live happy lives.
Thank you so much for visiting and commenting Carolee. (I love your name! So pretty)
Angela,
I think it is so true. This what is also in best selling book “secret”, where people thought about something too much it happened, including bad things.
I have learned to say to Zenguy and my friends when they are going, to “drive carefully” instead “don’t get in accident”. While both may convey same thing, one is negative tone and other is positive.
Hi Preeti,
Great point about switching to a more positive way to convey ideas! The Universe will respond to exactly what we input. If we say, don’t get in an accident – it hears, “Get in an accident.” Great point Preeti! Yes, the book, The Secret, brought the Law of Attraction the awareness of the masses, although it’s only one of many natural laws that’s been around since ancient times.
I’m so glad you enjoyed the post. Thanks so much for commenting and adding to the conversation Preeti.
Angela,
Yes, using positive wordings makes things positive! I love reading your posts, whenever I am on internet. It has been crazy hectic with school, teaching and 2 kids! How is life with you?
Hi Preeti,
I’m so glad you love reading my posts! Just hearing you say that makes staying up until 1 am worth it!
I’m crazy busy – as usual. I’m now on a new committee for women writers of NY. So, got a lot going on!
How are things with you? I know having 2 little ones leaves little time for much else. Being a mom is a 24/7 job!