Is Your Life All it Could Be? 3 Crucial Steps You May Be Missing

“Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined.” –Henry David Thoreau

Today I’m delighted to share my conversation with Melody Fletcher of the Deliberate Receiving. Melody is an expert in the Law of Attraction.

Is Your Life Not All it Could Be?If you’re not reading her blog you’re missing out on some awesome information. Today Melody shares three of her best tips with us for activating and utilizing the Law of Attraction in our lives.

Here is the “cliff notes” version of our conversation but, you really ought to listen to the whole thing to get all the benefits of what Melody shares with us.

1. You have to pay attention to you how you feel. Your emotions indicate whether you are moving in the right direction in your life or not.

We have been taught to not acknowledge our emotions and to suppress them. But, our emotions tell us whether we are moving in the right direction in our lives or not. We should be honoring the choices that feel better rather than those that make us feel bad. Allow your emotions of enthusiasm, exuberance, unconditional love and joy to lead your decisions. Pursue activities that create these emotions and you will manifest a life of joy.

2. Instead of complaining about something ask yourself, “What would I want instead?”

When you switch from complaining to focusing on what you want it completely changes your mindset to a more positive frame of mind. When you ask yourself what you want instead you are sending a “memo” to the Universe saying that you no longer desire to engage in situations that annoy or upset you. Shift gears from being upset to talking about what you want and you will feel better and when you feel better you will begin to turn your life around. Having positive emotions and feeling better is your first manifestation. Nothing can come into your life unless it is a vibrational match. The more often you do this the sooner you will see changes in your physical reality. When you change the way that you feel your life will change around you.

3. Learn to quiet the mind so you can focus on feeling good and on what you want in your life.

You can raise your vibration and have a “party in your head” by visualizing what you what you want in your life. The joy you feel during this “mind journey” will translate into positivity that affects your life for the better. By exuding an emotional frequency that matches what you focus upon internally – your outer life will reorder itself with situations that match your new higher emotional frequency.

Meditation is a great tool to help you attune to feeling good and the vibration of what it is you wish manifest in your life. Guided meditation is an excellent way to allow your mind to slow down and relax by focusing on listening to the narrator.

To create the happy life you want that you can look back on with no regrets get in touch with your emotions, stop complaining and focus on what you want and how that will make you feel.

To hear the full interview click on this link.
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What surprised you about this information? Did it open your eyes to a better way of how you might use the law of attraction?

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P.S. To learn more about guided meditation click here

Melody Fletcher is an expert in the Law of Attraction. Her website is  Deliberate Receiving. Melody doesn’t believe that spirituality or personal development have to be so damn serious all the time. She helps people to finally make sense of LOA, and to remember who they really are, so they can annoy their friends and co-workers with their new-found happiness.



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  1. Angela, I was mildly surprise when Melody advised us to ask ourselves what we want instead of whatever it is that is making us unhappy. So many folks tell us to just concentrate on the postive and ignore the negative. I had not thought before today that I could find the positive in something that was a deep wish in my own heart! This gives me a new connection with myself and provides a new link to attract like-minded folks to me. Hooray!
    Rose Byrd recently posted…"We Step Forward as One" ~Inspirations by Linda WillowsMy Profile

    • Hi Rose,
      Yes, I felt the same way!
      I’ve since begun switching to what I’d like instead rather than staying focused on what is upsetting me.

  2. Missed this post, but remembered you were interviewing Melody. I get the Abraham daily quotes. They help a lot. Remembering to focus on the delicious emotions is difficult but yes, necessary and it does work. Thanks for this. I’m thinking I’d love to lead/join a daily group meditation…bringing a whole room into a positive vibration has to be very powerful.

    • Hi Rosemarie,
      Melody shared some great tips.
      I particularly liked the one to remind ourselves what we would like instead.
      Yes, I agree. Leading a group to uplift their emotions to the highest possible state is wonderful.

  3. I have found that I can’t spend too much time in my emotions when I work with the LOA. I actually pay attention to my vibration instead. I’m constantly paying attention to that subtle feeling going up and down. I’ve found that when I work from a higher vibration, I always get what I want. I realize this might be too “woo woo” for most people, but I think it’s essential. Although, I realize that your emotions are another way to pay attention to this, but I think that emotions are more like side effects to your vibrational state. By paying attention to your vibration, you get out of your thoughts and into the present moment. What do you all think?
    AJ } OpenPsychic recently posted…#1 Way to Balance Your ChakrasMy Profile

    • Hi AJ,
      How do you pay attention to your “vibration?” What does it feel like and how do you differentiate that from your emotions?
      Please share with us how you “work from a higher vibration?”
      I’m not sure how I would pay attention to my vibration unless I am aware of my emotional state.
      I’m not challenging you here – I’d just really like to know how to do it?

  4. Angela and Melody,
    I thoroughly enjoyed listened to this interview and hearing both your voices. Melody, it was really great to know more about how you got started with the LOA. I also learned more about LOA than I ever knew about. You’ve given me some great food for thought!

    Thank you both!
    Betsy at Zen Mama recently posted…Ever Wondered What Intuition Is And How To Use It?My Profile

  5. What a fantastic interview! I loved hearing the voices of two of my very favorite people! (and so beautifully recorded) I had the feeling that I had you both in my living room and was listening in.

    Meditation helps me calm down and focus too – and I liked the points Melody made about not whining.

    The three points you summarized above sum up the interview perfectly!

    Loved this.
    Vidya Sury recently posted…God could not be everywhereMy Profile

    • Hi Vidya,
      I’m so glad you enjoyed listening to this interview with Melody.
      I thought she was great too!



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